Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Techno-challenged

I admit it, I am techno-challenged! My kids can run circles around me when it comes to knowing how to work a cell phone, computer, game systems, even the VCR. Creating this blog has been a major miracle and I am very proud of myself!

We finally let the older kids get a "facebook" page, and we let Jessie get a Webkinz. We have really avoided all this on line "stuff" due to the fact that there are so many predators out there. We know the kids have been taught about on line predators and cyber bullies, but our thoughts were always, "Why take a chance?" You hear on the new almost weekly about another young girl who has run off with some freaky guy she met on the internet. They are so manipulating and cunning that they can convince kids they are ok when they are perverts. Not to mention that with "social internet sites" that you can't always monitor what comes in and is written on their spaces. Since I don't understand how the computer is even hooked up, I just ahven't been able to wrap my mind around all this techno stuff and had, in the past, thought that to avoid it all is the best route. Until this week.

Mike and I relented and let Grace do "FaceBook" and then let Sam create on, too. We guaranteed them that we will be regularly checking, don't let anyone elses friends join your circle unless you KNOW that person, don't write anything that you would be ashamed of or would be dishonoring to the Lord, etc. Within a day the kids had "umteen" kids join their "friends" network. Oy! Then we let Jessie do Webkinz, an online virtual pet where you can create a house, play games, and talk...very restricted...to other Webkinz on line. It has major blockings and monitors. But, we have family friends that have Webkinz and when they are all on line together they can play and visit. Interestingly enough, we just heard a segment on Focus on the Family all about parents and kids and all the internet stuff and techno gadgets. There is a book called, Plugged In and Tuned Out by Vicky Courtney, and it is designed for the unsavvy techno parents-like me. It's on sale at the bookstore and I plan to get it this weekend to not only educate me but to give me more confidence in parenting kids that know more about stuff than I do.

On that note, I need to get cleaned up and take Jessie to a friend's house. We are on fall break and she had been sick on the couch for two days. She is feeling much better although there is residual stuffiness and throat crud going on.

Monday, October 8, 2007

First Day of Fall Break

Isn't this October 8th? Is it REALLY 91 degrees outside? Uh...yeah! We have set new heat records again but tomorrow it is suppsed to cool to the 80's and then 70's after that. Whew!

We have no major plans this week. Sam has practice (JV game tonight), I have to work, sleeping in slightly. It's just great to not have to rush, rush, rush. Jessie is suffering from a RAGING head cold so we stayed home from the game tonight to give her some rest.

Other than that...nothing much today. Actually, I am going to join the Book club at church. I don't know much about it at all and I am told that it is very sad, but I think I want to plow through it and meet with the ladies at the end of the month for dinner and discussion. I so miss fellowship on a regular basis although I am getting to meet the football moms a little more and I talk to my buddy, Toni, fairly regularly. I just want to connect with some women at church, too!

BLessings!!!!

Random and more

Random and more
Jessie's new "do"

Grace and Heather and Hard Rock Cafe'

Grace and her new sweetie, Ryan.

Sam and Grace at Mud Island, Memphis

Stax Museum, memphis

Bethany's Wedding

More Wedding

After the wedding...before reception

Best Buds

Loooooook!